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Wednesday, November 4, 2026

Irrevocably Changed

Who I am and how I relate to the world has shifted with the death of my sweet husband, Dale. The obituary below was beautifully written by our daughter Jodie.

Goodnight, my love.

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Dale Davaz passed away on Oct. 9, 2026, at his home in Eugene, Oregon. He was 67.


Dale was born on May 10, 1959, in Spokane, Washington, to Don and Joany Davaz. He was soon joined by two younger brothers and lifelong buddies, Dennis and Daryl. His earliest memory was looking through a screen door at his first home in Oldtown, Idaho, before the family moved to Hamilton, Montana, then Coeur d’Alene, Idaho. He graduated high school in Coeur d’Alene in 1977. He went on to earn degrees in political science and economics at the University of Idaho, then returned to Coeur d’Alene to pursue marketing and graphic design work. He joined the Catholic church in his mid-twenties and considered priesthood before he fell for the dazzling cantor, Margaret. He married Margaret in 1990 and adopted Kit and Julie in December 1991. Dale and Margaret had a third child, Jodie, in 1993.

Dale’s marketing, copywriting, and graphic design work morphed into a career at Spokane Teachers Credit Union, where he ultimately spent over 30 years in marketing, technology innovation, and data analysis. He co-founded an industry conference, CULytics, which focused on bringing credit unions of all sizes together to share the latest in financial technology. He ushered the credit union industry into the digital age as an early investor in online and mobile banking. In fact, back in the late 90s, Dale won a national award for the best credit union website — which Margaret watched him literally build pixel-by-pixel late into the night.

“Doctor Dale” was well-known among colleagues as an “idea guy” who would put forward 30 ideas at a time knowing only five would stick – but those five would be massive wins. He was also something of an enigma at work; as serious as his business was, he also liked to bake up dozens of mini muffins for meetings, drink his half-dozen daily coffees from a Hello Kitty mug, and challenge his colleagues to lunchtime Scrabble and foosball tournaments. The winners and losers would celebrate together over a lunch of spicy Thai food.

Dale nurtured other lifelong interests, as well. He left the church after being disillusioned by changes in policy that were more responsive to scandal in the clergy than to lay ministry, instead choosing the path of an atheist and secular humanist for the rest of his life. Despite this, he maintained a keen interest in early church history.

He loved to play foosball and tabletop roleplaying games with friends and family. He routinely met with his brothers, uncles, nephews, and lifetime friends for family poker nights that would stretch into the wee hours. He loved to put together a “wing-Wing” night, making delicious chicken wings to pair with marathon episodes of The West Wing. During quiet weekends, he and Margaret enjoyed doing “puzzles and podcasts” together.

Dale moved to Eugene, Oregon in 2019 at the end of his career. His lifelong interest in astronomy and astrophysics expressed itself in his retirement when he volunteered at the Eugene Science Center at the planetarium. He loved to inspire people to consider their place in the universe. He wrote a series of essays on astronomers, astronomical phenomena, and astrophysics – just for fun. His eldest, Kit, has combined the essays into a book that will be published in mid-November.

Dale was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in early 2026 and died from the disease after nine months. He spent his last months recording his life story with his daughter Jodie. While his career was a point of pride for him, it was his love of family he meditated on most of all.

Dale is survived by his wife, Margaret; his children, Kit, Julie, and Jodie; his grandchildren, Melody, Annalee, Abigail, and Gabriel; and his brothers, Dennis and Daryl, and our sister-in-law Denise. We will remember Dale for his sharp intellect, clever humor, everlasting kindness, and generous spirit.

A celebration of life will be held next spring so family and friends can remember and share stories of his remarkable life. In lieu of flowers, please consider a gift to the Eugene Science Center.

Friday, September 18, 2026

Patio Visitors

As summer winds down, so do our PatioTime visits with Jodie and the grandkids. These sunny afternoons with the kids helped Dale's chemo weeks be a little brighter.

At the end of August, the five of us became six:

Scaling the gate


Latest profile picture


Abby gets a science lesson


The gymnast 


Praying Mantises are fastinating creatures!


Thanks to daughter Jodie for allowing me to share her photos.

Saturday, July 11, 2026

Thursday, June 4, 2026

Cardio

Our life seems driven by a series of doctor visits. Today, it was the cardiologist's turn.

Suncatcher is from TadsaShop on Etsy

As we waited in the exam room for the results of Dale's EKG, I noticed something on the floor. You can see it there between Dale's knee and my shoe.


It appears to be a tiny paper heart.


I tell you, those hearts follow me around. 


(We had a mix of OK news and troubling news. That's part of our life these days, too).





Monday, June 1, 2026

Path of the Stars

Dale and I are sprucing up our home's exterior this year. After laying down a fresh layer of mulch on the yard, and power-washing all the concrete, we moved on to lighting.

We added new post-top solar lights, bringing a soft glow to the fence we share with our neighbor.

Then we added lights lining our driveway and the path to our front door. 


The way the light spreads into stars on the ground is incredibly pretty. 

Sunday, May 31, 2026

Just Because

Yesterday our daughter Jodie brought her dad and me this lovely bouquet ...


just because.

Sunday, January 4, 2026

Morning Moon

I woke up at 6:30 yesterday morning, an hour before sunrise. Light seeped in beneath the bottom of the curtain and the window sill. 


The Wolf Moon, January's supermoon, greeted me.

Wowza!

Happily, it's not only beautiful Oregon sunsets I get to see through my bedroom window! 

(Perhaps I should store a small tripod in the nightstand for fewer jiggles).

Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Ready for Fall

Kit stopped by yesterday to play dress-up with me. Well, dress up the house that is. We put on our creativity hats, pulled out the Autumn and pumpkin decorations, and gussied up the living room and entry way.

These two vignettes are on the mantle. The owl is a new addition this year. I found it at a thrift store a few months ago. He's very expressive!


We raided Abby's toy chest for some colorful blocks to use as pumpkin risers.


We also decorated a few shelves on the bookcase.


Whimsy and humor are a must!

Dale decorated the front porch. It's a masterpiece. I'll try to share that tomorrow.

Monday, August 25, 2025

Today's Another Minor Holiday

Today was Jodie's first ever banana split! I'm fairly sure I haven't had one since the turn of the century. But you know how it goes, it's imperative for us to honor a national holiday together - especially if it involves sweet treats! 



We had a choice of four ice cream flavors.



Three kinds of fruit ... that darn near makes this a salad!



Gooey toppings are necessary.



Jodie's masterpiece:



This was Abby's first ever banana split, too. Very clever to use a circus animal cookie as a spoon.


And a good time was had by all.


Jodie took all these great photos.


Wednesday, August 13, 2025

Patio Visitor

At the end of July, we had a special visitor. She came into the patio to cool off with Dale and me,


To drink deeply,


And take a shower.


Then she flew to the awning tether and shook out her feathers,


Lifted her face to the sun, and rested.


What a treat!

I almost missed seeing her because her coloring matches our fence and morning glories so well. The camera on my phone did a great job of catching all that movement. Dale got some beautiful photos, too, because he was sitting closer to her.

Tuesday, August 12, 2025

Points of Light

I adhered marbles


to the knotholes in our old fence.


As the sun sets each evening


the light shines through


gifting us


with colorful points of light.


And when the vines die back this winter? 


They'll be the stars of the show.

Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Beans & Franks

Yep. Another minor holiday. July 13th was Beans and Franks Day. 


That made the question about what to have for dinner easy.


I haven't had this combo in years. It was a blast from the past.


The fun of celebrating minor holidays is tapping into something just one step out of our ordinary daily activities.

Monday, July 14, 2025

The Simple Life

Each morning after our walks, Dale and I sit on the patio to cool down and enjoy the breeze.


It's a nice morning view. Our wall of Morning Glory vines is filling in nicely. Give it a couple more weeks.

:: chef's kiss ::

Tuesday, June 17, 2025

Decisions, Decisions

I'm like the old woman who lives in a shoe.

I had so many children crafts, I didn't know what to do.

All the surfaces in my Studio were cluttered up with partially done projects. So I decided to create a little order today. Layer by layer, project by project, I cleared my work surfaces. I put each project in a pile on my bed. Now I can tackle them one at a time.


These are thrifting finds I bought last week. Some are gifts for my granddaughters. Some is geocache swag. I've washed the fabrics. Now everything needs to be put away. 


This box is a card-making kit. I want to make a bunch and send them out to "my ladies" to let them know they've been on my mind.


Here are a couple pen-pal letters started for my Idaho grandkids.


I've done some measuring, so will cut these boxes to size, line them, and work on my "fat quarter project" wherein I sort my fabric, fold each identically, and organize them in boxes that will fit their shelf. This way, finding an appropriate fabric will be much easier than the current toppling stacks. This project is one of my 25 Goals in 2025.


And, of course, I still need to finish my cross-stitch pillow. I haven't worked out all the math yet.


So ... tomorrow? I tackle the first project tomorrow? 

One small problem: where do I sleep tonight?

Sunday, May 18, 2025

Follow Our Geotrail! - Part 3

Here are the final photos from our birthday/Mother's Day geocache outing. Geocaching is the ideal sport / game for us!


A surprise along the way ... this gnome lives in a hollow tree.


Cache of the Day - a pirate themed cache! It earned a Favorite Point from me.

Cap'n Pete's Hidden Treasure



This guy hung around in the trees, guarding the treasure chest.



Jodie found a travel bug



And so did I! 



And finally, a heart charm came home with me after I exchanged some swag.



It was a lovely, lovely, lively day outside in nature with two of my favorite people in the world.