Like the Great Wall of China

My healthy boundaries are more like mirages. Sometimes you see them, sometimes you don't depending on the angle of the sun.

They're getting stronger. At least I know that I ought to have some now. That's a good first step.

And I've given myself some guidelines to follow. And follow them on occasion. That's a good second step.

Now to fortify the walls and hedges to make them stronger.

And to oil the gates so that when it's safe, I can let people through.